Parents are very familiar with the eye roll. Trying to instruct your child without it sounding like a lecture is almost impossible, and you can practically read their mind: “Here we go again.” What makes the conversation more challenging is that you likely engaged in the same behavior you’re now warning them about.
However, they must understand everything they have to lose if they are caught drinking alcohol while under the legal age. They may be surprised to know that the consequences go way beyond paying a fine and losing their driving privileges.
Lost opportunities
Maryland law states that it is illegal for anyone under the age of 21 to possess or consume alcohol, except in limited circumstances, such as part of a religious ceremony or the individual consuming alcohol in the private residence of a relative. If convicted, the minor can face a fine of up to $500 for a first offense and $1,000 for subsequent violations. They may also be required to attend a substance abuse program and complete community service. The repercussions don’t end there, though.
Getting into a good college is more competitive than ever. The admissions officers want well-rounded students that will reflect the college’s values. Therefore, they take a holistic view of the student’s academic performance, extracurricular activities, involvement in their community and overall character. An underage drinking conviction raises red flags because it may be an indicator of poor judgment and a disregard for rules. When compared to candidates with similar grades and accomplishments, a teenager with a conviction might not make the cut.
There is also considerable concern about the effect that alcohol has on a teenager’s developing brain. Many of us often hear that drinking kills brain cells. In reality, it’s much worse. Alcohol can actually alter the way a brain develops. The brain doesn’t fully mature until a person’s mid-20s, and the teenage years represent a crucial period of growth. By consuming alcohol during the teenage years, an individual can suffer long-term problems, such as:
- Difficulties with focus, problem-solving and processing information
- More prone to anxiety, depression and mood swings
- Greater risk of developing mental health disorders
As parents, educating your children about the risks beyond the immediate legal penalties is important. Remind them they can always come to you without fear of judgment. And if your child is facing underage drinking charges, it’s essential to find someone who can help them with the legal process so they can begin to focus on the next phase of their life.